winter vacation

There's nothing like a small vacation to someplace warm during winter. It will give you and your sweetheart a change to do different things. If you were waiting for a chance to introduce her to bondage this might be the time.
If you are in a tourist city, such as Las Vegas, there are shows and other events that can stimulate imaginations. You may want to go to one of the sex shops and purchase her a collar or cuffs and present it to her as gift. It could well lead to her admitting she enjoys wearing such items.
Vacations also allow you to rent a small cottage away from the crowd. Try tying her up outside. For example when she she lying out on the sun surprise her by tying her wrists together and then her ankles. Her reaction might be "What if someone sees me this way?" Of course you know that isn't likely but it will make her more excited the chance that someone will catch her that way. After a few minutes you may even take her bikini top off.
Remember when you pack to take along some rope and if if she already has a collar and cuffs to include that in the suitcase as well. And don't forget the suntan oil.

Christmas presents

We actually celebrate Ukrainian Christmas in our household. If you do as well, Merry Christmas! Many of us give lingerie as gift on Christmas to our sweetheart and sometimes she needs an excuse to wear it and show it off to you. You may have also purchased her a new collar or other restraining devices. Now is a good time to use them.
Let her put them on and then tie her up. If some of the garment slips off a bit during the process, so much the better. Bondage while she is wearing something new and sexy will will make her feel good as well. Have fun and tie her safely.

Control

"M" has been willful lately, maybe something to do with being naughty or nice. Usually I use cuffs on her and then have my way with her. But this time I thought she needed- and wanted- more.

The first thing I do is put her collar on her and lock it. She will protest and give token resistance to the collar being placed around her neck but once that collar is on she becomes submissive. She gives in to my superior strength and will. I could order her to undress at this point and she would. But I prefer to undress her myself now, letting her know I'm going to hands on this time. I'm careful with her clothes but have been known to be less gentle on her panties and bra. I do believe she likes it when I tear her panties off, though the bra can be expensive so I make a decision as to whether I like the bra style or not. If it is full coverage and doesn't enhance her breasts then I will usually ruin it.

Instead of cuffs I use rope. Rope takes longer and I want her to feel the lose of her own control slowly as the rope goes around her limbs. I don't stop at her ankles, knees, elbows and wrists. I also will bind her breasts. At this point she is usually twisting her body in excitement but I like to add a crotch rope as well, often with a knot that will press against her pussy.

At this point sometimes I will gag her for a short time. One thing she knows is that later she will be disciplined, more on that in a future blog, and that I will be getting a blow job from her.

Try using lots of soft ropes on your lady sometime. It stretches out the time to put her into bondage and she will enjoy it as you slowly secure her.