There are some simple truths about the attraction between men and women. One, women wear clothes that reveal their figure and shoes that give their height and slightly adjust their posture. Men wear clothes that cover their bodies. Their suits give the suggestion they have broad, strong shoulders.
Men look for women with a figure; women look for tall men.
Alright, I know there’s a lot more to it than that. But let’s consider this: men look for a curvy body and women look for a powerful man. Yes I know there are other factors, but I’m talking about the first glance. For example if I write a story, the lead male better be tall and perhaps a little rough around the edges. Otherwise women don’t find the story interesting. They want him to be aggressive as well- a take charge guy.
I suppose this simple breakdown leads to some observations.
For one, we might have powerful men trying to control sexy women.
For example Princess Leia as a sex slave for Jabba the Hut in the old Starwars movie. For your viewing pleasure I’ve included some photos. Judging by the group photo a lot of women like to play the role of a Princess Leia. I would guess an equal number of men find Princess Leia, or the imitators, sexy. There is something about a bikini clad woman wearing a collar and chain that makes her very interesting.
For women, I suppose a man in a suit and tie represents power and strength, making him more interesting. That interest will increase with height and if he has strong facial features.
I suppose the ideal couple is a man in a suit holding the chain to a collared Princess Leia. Not likely to happen, but remember I write fiction so anything is possible.
Showing posts with label submissive. Show all posts
Showing posts with label submissive. Show all posts
Sunday, February 5, 2012
Thursday, December 27, 2007
Control
"M" has been willful lately, maybe something to do with being naughty or nice. Usually I use cuffs on her and then have my way with her. But this time I thought she needed- and wanted- more.
The first thing I do is put her collar on her and lock it. She will protest and give token resistance to the collar being placed around her neck but once that collar is on she becomes submissive. She gives in to my superior strength and will. I could order her to undress at this point and she would. But I prefer to undress her myself now, letting her know I'm going to hands on this time. I'm careful with her clothes but have been known to be less gentle on her panties and bra. I do believe she likes it when I tear her panties off, though the bra can be expensive so I make a decision as to whether I like the bra style or not. If it is full coverage and doesn't enhance her breasts then I will usually ruin it.
Instead of cuffs I use rope. Rope takes longer and I want her to feel the lose of her own control slowly as the rope goes around her limbs. I don't stop at her ankles, knees, elbows and wrists. I also will bind her breasts. At this point she is usually twisting her body in excitement but I like to add a crotch rope as well, often with a knot that will press against her pussy.
At this point sometimes I will gag her for a short time. One thing she knows is that later she will be disciplined, more on that in a future blog, and that I will be getting a blow job from her.
Try using lots of soft ropes on your lady sometime. It stretches out the time to put her into bondage and she will enjoy it as you slowly secure her.
The first thing I do is put her collar on her and lock it. She will protest and give token resistance to the collar being placed around her neck but once that collar is on she becomes submissive. She gives in to my superior strength and will. I could order her to undress at this point and she would. But I prefer to undress her myself now, letting her know I'm going to hands on this time. I'm careful with her clothes but have been known to be less gentle on her panties and bra. I do believe she likes it when I tear her panties off, though the bra can be expensive so I make a decision as to whether I like the bra style or not. If it is full coverage and doesn't enhance her breasts then I will usually ruin it.
Instead of cuffs I use rope. Rope takes longer and I want her to feel the lose of her own control slowly as the rope goes around her limbs. I don't stop at her ankles, knees, elbows and wrists. I also will bind her breasts. At this point she is usually twisting her body in excitement but I like to add a crotch rope as well, often with a knot that will press against her pussy.
At this point sometimes I will gag her for a short time. One thing she knows is that later she will be disciplined, more on that in a future blog, and that I will be getting a blow job from her.
Try using lots of soft ropes on your lady sometime. It stretches out the time to put her into bondage and she will enjoy it as you slowly secure her.
Friday, November 2, 2007
Stand up bondage
This week at my website- http://www.nshoward.com/- I have included pictures of women with their hands tied above their head. As with my other articles I'm assuming that the bondage is consensual; that she enjoys being put into restraints.
There are a few advantages to do so with above the head restraint. First, whether you use cuffs or rope, you can make her helpless quickly. A female with her wrists tied together and secured above her head is under your control. You can, of course, add additional restraints to her arms, legs, ankles or torso. There is also the possibility of adding a gag and a collar, and these two item will make her feel even more submissive.
The second consideration for restraining her arms above her head is that it improves her posture. The breasts are lifted upward, her back is stretched out and her stomach flattened. If she lifted high enough she will have to reach out with her foot to touch the floor. If her toes are just reaching the floor it will make her legs look longer.
Finally if you tie her up in the manner shown in the pictures you can walk around her and survey her body from all angles. It's easy to give her a pat on her ass or touch her any way your want. Hanging from the ceiling does allow her to move around as well if her feet can reach the floor and if there is a mirror in the room she will enjoy the sight of her own body hanging helplessly.
Give it a try on your lady. Remember as with a lot of bondage check to see if she is tiring or getting uncomfortable.
There are a few advantages to do so with above the head restraint. First, whether you use cuffs or rope, you can make her helpless quickly. A female with her wrists tied together and secured above her head is under your control. You can, of course, add additional restraints to her arms, legs, ankles or torso. There is also the possibility of adding a gag and a collar, and these two item will make her feel even more submissive.
The second consideration for restraining her arms above her head is that it improves her posture. The breasts are lifted upward, her back is stretched out and her stomach flattened. If she lifted high enough she will have to reach out with her foot to touch the floor. If her toes are just reaching the floor it will make her legs look longer.
Finally if you tie her up in the manner shown in the pictures you can walk around her and survey her body from all angles. It's easy to give her a pat on her ass or touch her any way your want. Hanging from the ceiling does allow her to move around as well if her feet can reach the floor and if there is a mirror in the room she will enjoy the sight of her own body hanging helplessly.
Give it a try on your lady. Remember as with a lot of bondage check to see if she is tiring or getting uncomfortable.
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