Control

"M" has been willful lately, maybe something to do with being naughty or nice. Usually I use cuffs on her and then have my way with her. But this time I thought she needed- and wanted- more.

The first thing I do is put her collar on her and lock it. She will protest and give token resistance to the collar being placed around her neck but once that collar is on she becomes submissive. She gives in to my superior strength and will. I could order her to undress at this point and she would. But I prefer to undress her myself now, letting her know I'm going to hands on this time. I'm careful with her clothes but have been known to be less gentle on her panties and bra. I do believe she likes it when I tear her panties off, though the bra can be expensive so I make a decision as to whether I like the bra style or not. If it is full coverage and doesn't enhance her breasts then I will usually ruin it.

Instead of cuffs I use rope. Rope takes longer and I want her to feel the lose of her own control slowly as the rope goes around her limbs. I don't stop at her ankles, knees, elbows and wrists. I also will bind her breasts. At this point she is usually twisting her body in excitement but I like to add a crotch rope as well, often with a knot that will press against her pussy.

At this point sometimes I will gag her for a short time. One thing she knows is that later she will be disciplined, more on that in a future blog, and that I will be getting a blow job from her.

Try using lots of soft ropes on your lady sometime. It stretches out the time to put her into bondage and she will enjoy it as you slowly secure her.

Bondage ceiling hook

Depending on the time you have and whether you want to try something new in restraining your lady, you might want to consider using a simple hook in the ceiling. Once she is willing to submit to you it is important to try different types of bondage to make it interesting for both of you. As you can see on my website it is very easy to quickly hand a chain or a rope from a hook implanted into the ceiling. Make sure the hook is into a solid surface and not just the drywall. Hooks of various strengths can be purchased from hardware stores and range from ones designed to hold a plant pot to those strong enough to lift several hundred pounds.
One thing is nice about the ceiling hook is that whatever room you choose to place it in, it won't look out of place and draw needless attention. Besides the bedroom you may wish to consider the living room, garage, basement or a spare room.
Try getting the quick disconnect latches. If company expectantly arrives you can quickly free her.
Now the nice thing about the ceiling hook is you can easily add a chain or rope to it and then handcuff her to hanging chain (or rope). Very quickly she is helpless in front of you.
You may want to consider adding a second hook to hold not just her hands but her ankles as well. If the hooks are strong enough (and put a soft mat under her in case they fail) you may wish to try suspension bondage. More on that in a future blog.

Hog Tie

The hog tie is a simple bondage method to hold a woman in a helpless position. With her arms behind her back and secured to her feet she is forced to lie unresisting to your advances.

You can touch her, spank her or do what you will. As you can see in the photographs she can be tied in a rather simple fashion using ropes or cuffs. However with a little imagination you can use more complex ties. After the tie is complete you can add to her submission by putting a collar on her, gagging her or attaching nipple clamps.

As in one picture you can also tie her so she is bent over backwards. Besides the workbench, chairs, multiple cushions, small tables can also work. What is important is if you can bend her back slightly (not too much- you don't want her to tire too soon). This improves her posture at her front, lifting her breasts to a pleasing position. With her hands behind her back and her legs pulled back her whole front is available for you to see and touch.

Remember she is vulnerable to your wishes. Touch her often. Massage her. Rub oil on her skin. Even, if she enjoys it, drip candle wax on her. Tying her wrists and feet together is just the first step. Now is the time to make sure she enjoys the experience for next time.