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Erotic Control

2011-11-11T16:43:00.000-08:00

Can control be erotic?

I have recently finished another story in my favourite genre, erotic science fiction. It this case the story takes place in the far future and the main characters get to roam around various star systems looking as detectives as they search for a kidnapped woman.
I shall leave the details of the story for another time and also what makes this a science fiction story versus a fantasy novel. Instead I want to touch on what makes this story fall under the erotic variety.
The definition I come to understand about erotica versus pornography is if you take the sex out of the story, will it still hold together? In this case I can assure you it does. In fact I don’t have that much sex in it. But I do bring in erotica another way.

The women in my story are not weak. They have strong characters and know what they want. However the men in the story are take charge kind of men. They have physical and mental strength. And they can make women submit to them. Certainly the submission is not immediate. It does take time for a lady to place her trust in her man.

So the erotica I’m talking about here is control. For example how about a husband ordering his wife to be naked when he comes home? How about telling her when he leaves for work in the morning she isn’t allowed to wear any underwear that day? Or how about if he texts her that no matter where she is , she must remove her panties? He may decide one Saturday that she needs to wear a crotch rope under her clothing.
He could also decide she needs a spanking. Whether she actually has done anything wrong or not isn’t the issue. It is his ruling she needs a spanking and he will decide how hard the spanking will be. My preference would also be bare ass and being naked is even better.
There are other methods to establish control of course. A locked collar is an excellent symbol and provides a constant reminder she is under his power. For a short period of time at home her wrists can be tied together, allowing her time to accept his influence.
Understand that I’m not saying the man forces her to submit but rather use his strength of character to bend her to his will. Also, he is not allowed to abuse her. The spankings should hurt and stimulate her but not cause her distress.

I trust you agree that the above can be sexy and erotic. Of course such situations can also easily lead to sex. So to answer the question in the first line, I would say in this situation the answer is yes.
Photo credits: From http://marqe.blogspot.com, except for the photo of the lady with her hands tied. That is Ashley Renee, www.ashleyrenee.com.

Cheers
Nick

The Prenuptial, a new spanking story

2011-10-02T21:15:00.000-07:00

I have a new short (actually quite short) story that has just been released through Trapezium books. It takes place in a lawyer’s office where a female attorney is administered discipline by her strong, masculine boss.
I tried to keep this story light and more of fantasy style rather than being serious. Of course spankings can be serious stuff but I decided to use the point of view from the female and let her own imagination of the spanking come through.
Here is the blurb for the story and a link to Trapezium Books.

It was the most unusual prenuptial agreement lawyer Shelly Macintyre had seen, stirring memories of her time learning under the strict Robert E Steinhauser. When she walked into office to negotiate the agreement, it wasn’t just the sight of him that made her knees go weak, but what he took out of his briefcase.
http://www.trapeziumebooks.com/index.php?route=product/product&product_id=3457
As with most of my stories I try to make spankings and BDSM consensual. I don’t like or believe in over powering to get one’s way- in particular when dealing with relationships. However once a person allows herself to be dominated, then a certain amount of force can be used. For example to use rope to secure limbs. The other thing is I think if one is going to the trouble to tie or spank someone, then clothes generally can get in the way. (Okay, I know you can cut off the clothes afterward too, but that can be expensive. You tie her up. Cut off the clothes. She buys more clothes. You get a big Master Card bill. Not so priceless.) Seeing a woman tied up fully dressed is like covering up a beautiful painting. I don’t mean to say nude is the only way to go as some lingerie can make very sexy too.

As far as spankings is concerned. Yes, I think you can start with paddling her over her jeans or skirt. But let’s face it. We both want her to bare ass eventually for the spanking. The clothes and panties only help her prepare for the final paddling.
The photo below is from wwww.redstripefilms.com

By the way, the story has a happy ending. :) Sorry- couldn't resist.
Nick

Slave collars and Praxton

2011-09-23T09:24:00.000-07:00

I want to answer a question I received about Praxton and women wearing collars..

My first book in the series is titled “Praxton, Slaves of the Rogue World”.
At the time I started the story (it was going to be a short story) and I wanted to use a title that sounded like one of those bad movies from the ‘60’s (like the Galaxy of Terror) and just have some fun with it. But, as you know, Praxton has taken a life of its ownSo to clear things up, the women on Praxton do wear collars that show they belong to a male guardian. Now the Alliance Worlds consider they are slaves, something they feel they have a moral obligation to set free. However the women on Praxton are not slaves and don’t consider themselves one. True, they must obey their guardian and
accept whatever discipline he feels is necessary to maintain the household. But there is a difference here from being a slave; women can leave their guardian and find another to take care of them.
Praxton has many more females than males and it is common for a guardian to have two or more females under his care. So if a female doesn’t like their present guardian, or can’t get along with the other females, she can seek another guardian. Praxton society may not make it easy for her to do so, but she can legally obtain a new guardian. Usually she would quietly ask her friends if their guardian is able to accept a new female or in some cases discreetly advertize for a guardian.

Now about the collars; they are not the usual collars you find here sold at various adult sites. First, most Praxton collars have matching cuffs and are considered a type of jewellery. The chains that join the cuffs are decorative and light rather than strong and heavy. Generally speaking a Praxton woman will wear her collar and cuffs at all times she is out of her bedroom. Thus the collars are usually made fairly light and made to be comfortable. A Praxton female will normally have several collars to choose from. Likely she will have a collar for special occasions that will have jewels and made with precious metals, as well as other collars that will compliment with what is wearing that day or match her mood.
The collars on Praxton normally have a closure that automatically locks (This would also true of the cuffs). Symbolically this shows the female is under the guardian’s control. In reality the female normally would have a second key in her possession in case she needed to temporally remove it.

So what do these collars look like? I have some pictures of collars that might give you an idea of the everyday style Praxton females wear. Leather is not used on Praxton; like other worlds the use of animal skins is considered barbaric. Thus other materials are used that may appear to be like leather but would be slightly different. Some of these pics are taken from BondageCollars.com Have look at their website, some very interesting items.

Anyway, I hope this post gives abetter understanding of Praxton collars and what they mean.

Spanking Survey

2011-09-16T14:59:00.000-07:00

I mentioned in my last blog that there were several surveys on adult spanking on the Internet. I checked a few of them out and found the results interesting. I've reprinted part of one survey below, this one entirely answered by women.

3.) Your age is?
18% (47) 18-20
14% (37) 21-25
11% (31) 26-30
7% (20) 31-35
11% (30) 36-40
24% (64) 41-50
10% (26) 51-60
1% (4) 61 and over
259 voters have answered this question.

4.) Marital status is?
40% (105) Single
46% (121) Married
10% (27) Divorced
1% (3) Widow
1% (4) Separated
260 voters have answered this question.

5.) Were you spanked as a child?
70% (179) Yes
29% (76) No
255 voters have answered this question.

6.) Are you spanked as an adult female? (over 18)
87% (224) Yes
12% (33) No
257 voters have answered this question.

7.) If you answered ”No,” in #6, under the right circumstances would you like to be?
96% (120) Yes (Please continue)
4% (5) No (Thank you. Please stop here and view the poll results)
125 voters have answered this question.

8.) If you answered ”Yes,” on #7, would the right circumstances be? (Check all that apply, stop here, and see the Spanking of Adult Females #5 - Wana’be Spanked poll http://www.misterpoll.com/2879437003.html)
47% (78) Playful (for fun)
59% (98) Sexual
73% (122) Disciplinary
33% (56) To satisfy a psychological need
38% (63) To maintain dominate/submissive relationships
165 voters have answered this question.

9.) If you are spanked as an adult, are these spankings? (check all that apply)
40% (99) Playful
59% (143) Sexual
78% (189) Disciplinary
31% (77) To satisfy a psychological need
33% (82) To maintain dominate/submissive relationships
242 voters have answered this question.

10.) Who spanks you? (check all that apply)
21% (51) Father
5% (12) Father’s friends
23% (56) Mother
5% (13) Mother’s friends
42% (101) Husband
8% (20) Husband’s friends
25% (61) Boyfriend
6% (16) Boyfriend’s friends
23% (55) Your female friend(s)
17% (42) Your male friend(s)
8% (20) Male neighbor(s)
14% (34) Female neighbor(s)
11% (28) Boss
10% (25) Brother
3% (9) Brother’s friends
11% (27) Sister
5% (13) Sister’s friends
4% (10) Son
5% (14) Daughter
8% (21) Strangers
7% (18) Other
11% (27) Lesbian lover (added 08/05/03)
5% (13) Lesbian friends (added 08/05/03)
237 voters have answered this question.

11.) Who is your primary spanker? (who spanks you the most)
7% (18) Father
0% (0) Father’s friends
8% (21) Mother
0% (1) Mother’s friends
35% (85) Husband
0% (2) Husband’s friends
17% (41) Boyfriend
0% (1) Boyfriend’s friends
3% (9) Your female friend(s)
2% (7) Your male friend(s)
0% (1) Male neighbor(s)
3% (8) Female neighbor(s)
2% (5) Boss
1% (4) Brother
0% (0) Brother’s friends
0% (0) Sister
0% (0) Sister’s friends
1% (3) Son
1% (4) Daughter
7% (17) Lesbian lover (added 08/05/03)
0% (2) Strangers
2% (6) Other
0% (2) Lesbian friends (added 08/05/03)
237 voters have answered this question.

I did bold one answer here, the one question that showed 87% of adult females had been spanked by those taking place in the survey. Another question on who did the spanking was interesting to note that there was a wide range of answers. I expected the answer to be more towards husbands or boyfriends.

This survey was taken from Mister Poll. The link to this survey is http://www.misterpoll.com/polls/122138/results They also have several other interesting surveys.

Anyway, this is all food for thought. I'm not sure why spanking is so popular. A few years ago it was shown on TV- I think there was an espisode on Star Trek where Captain Kirk spanked a bratty princess. That would be now be politically incorrect. I long for the good old days. Maybe that's why there are few spanking scenes in my Praxton series. Science fiction where lovely women are given some discipline.

Nick

Spanking the lady

2011-08-25T11:15:00.000-07:00

I like the image of the naked woman (wife? girlfriend?) on the knee of the gentleman. It appears he is wearing a suit. Thus we have the image of a powerful man and a vulnerable lady. Overall I find the picture rather erotic.
I'm not sure of the accuracy of statistics of woman who liked to be spanked. I have heard some rather high percentages on that, something like 80%. But likely the ones answering such a survey (they are of the on-line variety) are interested in discipline anyway and thus found the survey on a spanking site. One lady I know told me she likes the thought of a spanking rather than the actual spanking. Specifically she said it was the knowledge that her husband could spank her if he decided to do so.

One of the stories I'm working on- I think I'm about half way through- has a spanking situation in it. A new relationship has the man telling his girlfriend that he wants to spank her. I suppose he could have done the "I'm in charge" thing and just drag her over his lap, spank her and to hell with the consequences. However I have him suggesting the spanking for two reasons. One, if he does just force the spanking she just might never forgive him and thus ending their romance. This he's not willing to risk. The other consideration is if she agrees to the spanking, then she is accepting he is in charge. Likely it will be the last time he would ask her to be spanked and just do it when he felt the need. So she is now has a decision to make and it's bit more complicated that what I can sum up a few sentences.

At least in this photo it appears the spanking is consensual. Certainly she looks like she is enjoying it. As for him, it's a given he's having fun. More on spanking on the next blog- its a subject I want to get to the bottom of.

Nick

2011-08-07T14:32:00.000-07:00

It has been a period of time since my last blog but I wanted to redo the website and the theme of my blog. I believe in the old saying one picture is worth a thousand words and with that in mind I plan to continue with my blog on writing about erotica with the help of photos.
First, I do like to make use of the keyhole. If one was to have a glimpse inside past a closed door, what do you think you would see? Likely not exactly the expected. So with that in mind, let’s take a look at the adjourning picture. She appears to me to be not in too much stress, more like anticipating for someone to walk through the door. If you were a stranger to her you might be hesitant about offering her help. She might tell you to get lost.
Perhaps you have a different interpertation of the image and might feel inspired to write a few words about it. As for me, sometimes images will inspire me to write a story, or at least fill a gap in one I am writing.

Currently I am working on a couple of stories that fall under the Praxton series. One is the fourth book and the other is a spinoff from the series that includes the planet Praxton. I'll keep you posted on the progress.

As always, comments are welcome and feel free to contact via my email address.
Cheers
Nick

An erotic fairy tale

2011-02-04T15:49:00.000-08:00

I have new release with Samhain Publishing called Be Careful What You Wish For. The story received an excellent review from Whipped Cream and has a different take on the damsel in distress story line. Simply put, a princess is kidnapped by a knight. However in this story the knight and the princess must follow the rules put forth in Kidnapping Of Damsel Laws, which stipulate what the knight may or may not do. The princess is also bound by such laws and the story follows her resistance to his planned seduction.
The princess is of course locked in her room for periods of time and must also wear what he deems appropiate. She is also put in chains and must endure apankings. I'm sure you will enjoy this tale.
The link for purchase is http://store.samhainpublishing.com/nick-howard-pa-1627.html
The review by Whipped Cream is at http://whippedcream2.blogspot.com/2011/01/be-careful-what-you-wish-for-by-nick.html?zx=d6074aca89dcc9e

In the next blog I will let you know about the next Praxton book, which has turned out to a rather successful series. I would love to hear more from you about my stories and will be glad to answer any of your questions.

Nick

The men of Praxton

2010-12-17T19:45:00.000-08:00

On my last blog I said we would look at some of the customs men were expected to follow on Praxton. The contrast to what women wear is significant. To start males need to appear to be Strong and dominating. This means clothing that is loose and to give the appearance he is large and strong. The shirt usually has long sleeves and bulky looking. Often it will be open in the front to show off his chest. His pants are also loose fitting, though the fly will be heavily decorated and partially open to reveal what is underneath. Males also wear heavy boots, almost continuously from the time they get up in the morning until it`s time for bed.
As the reader will note, the contrast between males and females dress is significant and helps establish the order on Praxton.

I recently received a review from Coffee Time Romance. A link to the review;
http://coffeetimeromance.com/BookReviews/praxtonslavesofrogueworldbook1bynickhoward.html
They gave it a good review. The second book in the series-Praxton, The Battle for Freedom- will be released in January.

I have a new release by eXtasy Books. Snow Job contains two short Christmas stories. One contains a bit of spanking and bondage. The other is a humorous story about a Christmas tree.

If I don`t have a chance to later on, I want to wish you a very Merry Christmas and best wishes for the New Year.

Praxton customs

2010-10-17T12:24:00.000-07:00

As I mentioned in my last blog I want to talk more on the social customs of Praxton. Many of the customs come from the time when females were treated as valuable slaves. Thus in modern Praxton females are usually restrained to their bed at night, often by being cuffed to the ankle to the foot of the bed. Normally females sleep two to a bed and also sleep in the nude. Thus females consider it normal to exchange physical touches with one another and it is not unusual for intimate relationships to develop.
Females are encouraged not to hide their body. An example is the bath and showers often have glass walls around them that allow others to see them as they wash. Some households even may have one transparent wall of the bath or shower to the outside world.
The fashions on Praxton reflect the past as well. Females wear a collar that identifies their male guardian. They also wear cuffs with various chains attached. These collars, cuffs and chains are less practical as restraints and more like fashion jewellery. While the cuffs and collars are locked, most females are allowed to carry a key to remove them as need requires. While females vary the way they wear cuffs and chains, sometimes choosing to leave them off, they will always wear a collar. The collar is a deeply ingrained symbol to Praxton and a female would never leave her bedroom without wearing one.
On my next blog I shall talk about Praxton from what males are expected to wear and how they act.

Praxton Life

2010-09-08T19:55:00.000-07:00

I said in my last blog I would give more of an insight of Praxton and the way of life there. The rest of human civilization, namely the Alliance worlds, believe the women on Praxton are treated as slaves. Praxton disagrees but let me describe a bit about Praxton`s past.
The early history of Praxton started when two rival groups decided to colonize the planet at the same time. One group was military in structure, the other was intent on populating the world as quickly as possible and brought more women than men. Soon the military group was trying to capture the women for their own needs. After a brief war an agreement was reached but outlaw slave trading flourished.
Raiders, small groups of outlaws, would capture women from the estates of wealthy land owners. They would then sell the women to other wealthy estates.
Once a women was purchased, usually at an auction, the owner would take steps to ensure she didn`t easily disappear. The new slave would be given clothes of the owner`s choice, collared and likely cuffed with chains. Often they would be placed in a locked cell with other slaves. To help ensure her behaviour the new owner would often use mild discipline such as spanking or a light whip.
Modern Praxton reflects its not so civilized past. Women still wear collars that identify there male guardian. However the collars are more cosmetic in nature and can be very decorative. Females also wear cuffs with chains attached but wear them as jewellery. Though the collar and cuffs are always locked, most women carry a spare key to remove them in case they need to remove them for washing or changing clothes.
More on Praxton customs later, but I would like to announce Praxton, Book One is now available at Midnight Showcase http://www.midnightshowcase.com/midnight/PraxtonBook1.htm

New story, Praxton

2010-08-29T19:34:00.001-07:00

I am looking forward to the release of Praxton, Slaves of the Rogue World at the beginning of September. I had a lot of fun writing the story, so much so there are sequels in the works. I have had a few compliments on the story from the editors, and I suspect more than a few of my readers will enjoy reading it.
Praxton takes place in the far future. “Slaves of the Rogue World” is perhaps a bit misleading. In my story the Alliance Worlds believe the women on Praxton are indeed slaves and need to be set free. Their beliefs at first look as if they are slaves. All females (although they outnumber the males by a considerable margin) wear collars to show who their male guardians are. The females also often wear cuffs with chains, wear little clothing and are submissive to the men. Despite this the females are free to choose their guardian.
Praxton is a male dominate society and females are submissive to them, dressing and acting to please them. The guardians also hand out discipline to help maintain order in the household where there can be several females living with a single male guardian.
Of course the Alliance Worlds have trouble believing that the females on Praxton are content and want to save them. The minor problem is the women of Praxton don’t want to be rescued. Thus we have a conflict between the Alliance Worlds and Praxton, and the fun begins!
So in the next few blogs I want to go over what it is like to live on Praxton, especially from the females point of view.

Time flies

2010-07-09T20:37:00.000-07:00

Sorry I haven't done any blogging since April. There was just too much work to do around the house and I just ran out of time. I have not stopped writing though and am working on a couple of stories. One is a Christmas story I promised eXtasy Books I'd have ready this month.
I'm also trying to get my series Praxton ready for publication, these books will be published by Midnight Showcase.
Finally I have a new release by eXtasy Books called The Doorway, which is a sequel to Buy Me. The Doorway deal with bondage and BDSM and the main female character, Catherine, has a strong personality. The main male character Daniel tells her he wants to seduce her and make her his sub. The story deals with her resistance to him and the battle of wills between them.
The underlying message of The Doorway is that people have desires but don't always have a chance to act on them. In this case Catherine wonders who she really wants to be. The link for The Doorway is:
releases.http://www.extasybooks.com/ebjmsite/index.php?page=shop.product_details&category_id=55&flypage=ebook_flypage.tpl&product_id=8335&option=com_virtuemart&Itemid=50
or go to EXtasy Books and look for it under new releases.
Okay, I had to give a plug for my latest book. I want to say generally speaking I like to write stories where the bondage or BDSM is consensual. I can`t always use that theme but I do find a lot of women are interested in fantasizing about being held helpless. On my next blog I will go into a bit more detail on that, and I assure you the next blog won`t be long in coming.

Enjoy the summer
Nick

New story

2010-04-29T18:08:00.000-07:00

I want to let you know I have a new short story available called Inventory Time. This tale involves two women counting inventory in a warehouse under the supervision of a male manager. Some errors in the counting of parts leads to some unusual discipline, starting off with a mild spanking and eventually the use of bondage. The actions are consensual and the story is meant to show the attraction of the three people to each other.
You can read an excerpt on my website or purchase the story at A1adultbooks. The buy link is http://www.fiction4all.com/site.php?cat=ISC&adlib=Y
I hope you will take the time to give it a read.

I'm also busy for the release of a book called Buy Me. More details on that on the next blog.

spanking

2010-04-09T17:00:00.000-07:00

After "M" submitted to me we had a lot of fun experimenting with different types of bondage and discipline. I liked using rope on her and she preferred the bonds to be tight. Those were the fun times- any time I felt like it I could tie her up. She accepted that I knew best and never argued when I felt the need.

I also expected her to tell me if she felt she had been bad. She told me that since she was never sure if I already knew she had disobeyed, she would always tell me as soon as possible any infraction she may have done.
Last night she came into the TV room and after gaining my attention, removed her clothes and then slid over my lap. She told me she had wasted time during the afternoon watching a soap opera and deserved to be spanked for it.

Of course I appreciated her honesty in informing me of her indiscretion, and also making the punishment easy and lying naked over my knee. I suspected she wanted to spanked and looked for the opportunity to get one. I decided to oblige her. First I used my hand and then I finished off the spanking with a few wacks with my belt.
That night in bed she was still feeling guilty about her behaviour and did her best to make it up to me.

Collar time

2010-03-17T21:47:00.000-07:00

I remember the first time I presented "M" with a collar. It was a beautiful metal and black leather collar that used a small padlock to ensure its closure. When I opened the package in front of her I expected she would be hesitant about accepting it. "M" has a strong personality and she fought me as I pressed my control over her. The collar is very symbolic; it asserts that the person wearing it is a sub and I was not going to force it on her. If she refused to wear it I would continue my task of dominating her. So far she had resisted my attempts but after some discipline she would obey my wishes.
I did understand she enjoyed being spanked, but she preferred it first if I used my strength to pull over my knee. Once she had been spanked, always bare bottomed, she would act like a proper sub. It was a game she liked to play, to see how far I would go to keep her in line.
I did use bondage as a way of discipline. I would use ropes to secure her to a door, hogtie her and even occasionally to the coffee table. Believe me, there are a lot of ways to use rope to secure a pretty woman to a position.
Back to the collar. When "M" saw the collar she was ecstatic. She quickly put it on and knelled in front of me. Her words were, "I finally feel like a proper slave now."
It marked the end of "M"s resistance to me. With that collar I now had full control.

Keeping her naked

2010-03-11T12:56:00.000-08:00

I mentioned how I spanked “M” for the first time and I continued to push my dominance over her carefully over the next few weeks. I suppose some would call it training but I thought of it conditioning her to accept myself as her master.
On one occasion I phoned her in the morning before she went to work; she still lived separately from me. I told her I wanted her to wear a skirt but she was not to wear any panties. She protested she was already dressed but that simply told me she wasn’t really refusing my command, just the timing of it. I then repeated my command and informed her she was now going to receive discipline as well when I saw her later. There was a small hesitation and she said she was sorry and would change immediately. Of course I administered a spanking that evening and then made her stand in a corner for ten minutes. The next time I phoned in the morning and told her what to wear there wasn’t any hesitation in her agreement.
On the following weekend I stayed over and wanted to exert my control. I told her she was not allowed to get dressed until I said so and I would choose what she could wear later. I went out Saturday afternoon alone. I didn’t tell her where I was going or when I would be back. She glared at me, which earned her several swats on her bum, and I left. I went for a coffee, returning almost two hours later and saw she was naked and subdued. She apologized for being defiant and kneeled in front of me. I was pleased at her new attitude and took her out for dinner that evening, giving her only a dress and shoes to wear.
During the next few weeks I would also tie her up in different positions when the opportunity arose. Cuffs would have been easier, but I preferred to use rope at those first sessions. I liked to use lots of rope that made her feel completely captured and helpless. I didn’t use much discipline then, but was watching her carefully as she submitted to being captive. She was enjoying her bondage sessions and mild spankings, but I was planning to increase the discipline a bit. In the next blog I will explain what I did next.

2010-03-10T13:26:00.000-08:00

I recall fondly the first time I felt “M” was under my control. I was very patient with her, slowly showing her my ability to direct her to do what I wanted. Then one evening I decided to take the leap and push her into a submissive act for the first time. Afterwards she asked me what took me so long! I guess I missed a few hints before she was ready.
We had an outing to a nice lounge for drinks and a small bite to eat, and then I took her to my place. She was wearing a short skirt and a simple top, looking very pretty and sexy. The skirt was something I told her on the phone I wanted her to wear. She complied without comment and I had a sense she knew something was going to happen.
At my place I gave her a drink and sat next to her on the couch, joking with her and letting my hands run up and down her legs. After she finished her drink I told her last week she had been having naughty thoughts and I needed to correct that. Her response was something like how I planned to do that, and as an answer I put my arm around her shoulder and pushed her down and over my lap.
“M” giggled as she rolled over my lap and I quickly established my control by giving her several swats on her ass. She didn’t struggle other than place a hand over her backside that I quickly grabbed to pin her better. I lifted up her skirt to her waist and pulled down her panties before spanking her again. She gave a small shriek but it didn’t sound like a protest. I knew she was waiting what I was going to do next, and that was to push her top and bra off. I told her I wanted her naked and she assisted me as she rested across my lap. After I removed her skirt I gave her another spanking. I then removed my belt and told her to cross her wrists behind her back. She quickly obeyed and I tied her wrists with my belt. I had her; naked, secured and looking lovely over my lap.
I told “M” that from now on I was going to control her. After a brief hesitation she nodded. I allowed her to get up after another spanking but kept her hands secured behind her back. I still had more plans for her. I would like to point out the spanking wasn’t hard. It was not meant to cause her any pain but to establish I could spank her when I wanted to.
Next blog I will talk about on my next steps with “M”.

Establishing control

2010-03-08T11:48:00.000-08:00

Dominance. Once you have established that you are in control, you can take your dominance to the next level. Don’t push too hard or too fast. She will let you know when she is ready to trust you to take control.
Be a gentleman; open car doors for her, help her sit, offer to do things for her that is easier for a man to do. You do want her to depend on you and it’s important that she feels safe with you. Take her to places where it is expected woman will wear dresses, skirts, high heels and depend on an escort to make the evening easier.
Remember the earlier blog spoke of using your strength to occasionally guide her? Continue to do so but now you can step it up slightly. Take her to your place for an evening for a meal you prepared or to watch a movie you picked out. Pour her a drink; don’t ask if she wants one. By giving her a drink you are establishing control for the evening.
At some point you will want to go to the next level with her. There are a number of ways of doing this. One way, when you are alone with her, is to remove your tie and as you kiss her, wrap the tie around her wrists. Her reaction will tell you if she is ready. She may laugh and slip her hands out of them, she may look down and not resist at all. If she does resist, do not be alarmed. Try again when she is more comfortable.
Another method is to sit in an armchair and ask her to bring you a drink. When she hands you the drink, gently take her arm and pull her towards the floor, telling her you want her to sit by you. If she complies and sits on the floor next to you, it is a sign she is submitting to you. If she sits on your lap or on the arm of the chair, she is not ready yet.
Regardless of her actions, continue to promote her wearing clothes that show off her figure and legs. You want her to feel sexy and at the same time dependent on you. Next blog I will tell of the time I got “M” to submit for the first time.

the start of dominance

2010-03-06T19:43:00.000-08:00

Dominance. That can be a powerful word to use when describing a situation or a relationship. When you are with a partner for a period of time one will eventually exert dominance over the other to varying degrees. As a male, you want that to be you. One thing you should be aware of is that your lady wants you to be dominate as well (that is, most women do want their male partner to be strong and be the leader).
You do not have to overpowering to dominate. Simple acts will reinforce that role. If you are at a party take a moment to tell her you want to show her something (it can be anything like a painting or a chair) and use your hand to direct her to the new location. Do not point or just lead. Let her feel the strength in your hand. Another method is to talk to her when she is blocked by a wall or another object. Move in close and let her know she is captive to you for the moment.
When you are about to go to a function and you want to impress her, wear big clothes. Shirts with long sleeves, a sports jacket or a suit will make you look bigger and more powerful. The less she wears, the more powerful you will be in her eyes and she will depend on you to keep the other male predators away.
Remember to use your size to your advantage. Occasionally put your arm around her but do not over do it and look clingy or scared to leave her alone. It is important for you to tell her what you will be doing so she can be prepared, but don’t explain unless it’s important to do so. For example, at a party tell her that “We will be leaving after 11pm” but you shouldn’t have to explain why.
Next blog will discuss what to do when you are alone with her and how to make her more submissive.

Haven Story

2010-02-22T08:44:00.000-08:00

I don't know if you have had time to check out my novel "Haven" but I would like to give a bit more information about the story and how it relates to the sequels "Praxton, Slaves of the Rogue World". Society pushes us towards political correctness, something that has being going since history began I suppose. Certainly a lot of people came to the New World to escape what they considered an oppressive society in the Old World.
Haven takes place in the far future where political correctness makes humans want to establish their own worlds under their own laws. However Earth doesn't want these outlying worlds to have too much independence and forces them to agree to the Charter of Conduct, a document enforcing Earth's way of life. When Haven is rediscovered by Earth and the Alliance Worlds, they discover that eating meat, using wood and having natural birth is no longer considered civilized. A struggle begins between the opposing views.
Haven touches on the world of Praxton. When the story of Haven is told Praxon is still an independent world but is facing increasing hostilities to agree to the Charter of Conduct.
Praxton's crime is the keeping of women in a collar that identifies their male guardian, and the population of Praxton is such that there are several females for each male. I have simplified the Praxton story line here of course, but one thing I like to emphasise is that the women choose to live on Praxton under these conditions. In fact the Alliance Worlds are appalled how many women choose to immigrate to Praxton.

The fact is many women do enjoy being tied up occasionally, wear collar and cuffs and like to have an occasional spanking, or at least fantasize about it. So in the face of political correctness, I wrote about Praxton.
Television doesn't have a problem showing a woman being murdered but can you imagine the outcry if one is spanked? I guess being murdered is the lesser of the two evils.

Nick Howard

2010-02-16T19:04:00.001-08:00

Hi Everyone,

I hope my blog is okay. I wasn't sure what to write but since I didn't want to be spanked I figured I should write something, especially since Nick has been so nice to me.

I'd like to give Nick a big thank you for not only cheering me up by giving me something to do and inspiring Violet's story but also for hosting my story on his site. It's such a big compliment for me since he's such a great writer. Thank you Nick.

When Nick first offered to host a story I write for his site and mentioned my other NIS stories. That's why I wrote an NIS story, and since one of my stories has a main character who's a vampire, I decided to write another NIS story with a vampire for him. Most NIS stories cover an entire week but since Nick wanted a short story I just wrote Violet's Monday entry. I did leave the ending open so I could add on if I wanted. I also posted Vampire Naked in School at storiesonline and so far all those who've written have liked it and think I should continue Violet's story for the entire week. I hope you will enjoy her story as much as they have. And it's quite probable there will be more of her story in the near future.

Happy reading Everyone and thank you again Nick,
Samantha

spanking

2010-02-16T12:54:00.000-08:00

I not much of a believer in spanking children, however I do enjoy spanking "M" occasionally and like seeing the odd picture of a women being spanked. In my discussions with my lady friends it seems most of them enjoy the pat on their rear as well. There are a lot of spanking blogs, a lot of them by women so it seems this may be a popular pass time.
I prefer the use of a hand on the bare bottom, believing the cane or other devices may cause too much pain or marks afterwards. Still, if your lady likes a firmer spanking then by all means do use it.
I'm doing a bit of research on spankings because I would like to write a story on it and so I have cruised through a few sites. Most of them very interesting. I did avoid the ones that were pay sites, as I wanted to read stories and see pictures that were more likely authentic.
These two pictures came from vintagespank.com, by the way. A very nice site. And yes, that is Elvis from one of his movies.

Great news: I have a new free story posted by a new writer, Samantha. She was kind enough to let me post "Naked Vampire at School". Have a read- it's very good- and check out her other writing.
I have asked her to write a blog for me and I hope she agrees. To convince her to you think I should threaten her with a spanking? LOL.

Stories on hold

2010-02-05T20:50:00.000-08:00

I haven't a had a chance to work on a story lately. We had some water and plumbing problems and one thing led to another. A wall had to come down and it ended up being a bit of a mess.
That doesn't mean my ideas for stories disappeared. In fact I worked on a couple of stories in my mind. They just haven't been made into actual words.

One story is the forth novel for Praxton, Slaves of the Rogue World. By the way the first Praxton novel is due for release in August, 2010. The sequels will be released in September and November. I hope I can have the forth book ready by the end of the year. Hopefully I won't have any more home disasters.
I have another short story ready. I'm not sure when to release it and I'm not even sure what to title it yet. I'll figure all that out in a week or two.

Valentine's day is coming up; make sure you remember to get something nice for your sweetheart. If you know her well enough you can get her a nice pair of handcuffs but don't push your luck. Flowers first.

Back again

2010-01-17T11:10:00.000-08:00

Sorry about the length of time since my last blog. Xmas is a crazy time of the year and among other things I did a lot of outdoor stuff. We have a couple of snow mobiles and we used them a lot this year.

I have updated my website a little more often and now that I'm not scared to make changes to it I will be doing more regular updates.
As you may have noticed I am including a few pictures of vintage bondage. I find them interesting and hope you like them too.

I am working on a new story, two actually. One is a short medieval story about a kidnapped princess. Her problems begin when her fairy god-mother overhears her wishes.
The other is a story set in the future that involves a detective agency. More details on that as I work thorough it.

If you have a minute, let me know what you think of my stories and website. I'm always looking for ways to improve both.

Nick Howard

New story

2009-12-02T22:31:00.000-08:00

I have a new novel out soon called "Haven", published by Midnight Showcase. It will be released next week and I'm happy to be back with a new story. This science fiction story shows the clash of cultures between two human civilzations separated by over two centuries.
Haven is also a novel that leads into the series called Praxton, Slaves of the Rogue World. The first two stories of Praxton had been available for a short time through A1adult. The new and revised Praxton series will have four novels.
Praxton is an adult series that involves BDSM, and though Haven doesn't have that it does describe the Charter of Conduct Office, the government body that tries to take over the world of Praxton.
I will more information on Haven later and some other stories I'm working on.
Have a good day.
N S Howard

Quiet ties

2009-10-08T14:01:00.000-07:00

M and I had to take a trip to Saskatchewan. Anyone that has driven through that province will usually comment on the long, straight roads. The journey can be a bit boring. Of course, off the highways one can find an abundance of lakes and other places to relax at. It's getting there the problem.
Before we left our motel room for the journey home I decided to make the trip a bit more interesting. Before she was allowed to get dressed, I added a rope around her waist with the loose end going from her backside and up between her legs and back to the rope. I didn't make the crotch rope tight- I just wanted her to feel it as she sat in the truck. Next I took a second rope and wrapped it around her torso, squeezing her breasts together and forward. I allowed her to put on her jeans and a T-shirt but nothing else.
M walked barefoot to the truck, looking a bit nervous someone would see her but on the road she was excited. The rope was making her aroused and by the time we reached the Alberta border she was ready to jump me. Needless to say the trip was far from boring and when we got home she was very aroused.

I mention this episode because not all bondage ties have to exotic. The thought of being tied up will usually make a woman more attentive. For example you can use a belt to lightly tie a lady's wrists together, and though she can easily slip out of them, she will usually sit quietly and not resist your next move.

Sometimes the simpler ties are the best and just take your time before you make your next move. It gives her time to let her own fantasies put her in a better state of mind.

Up and running

2009-09-13T09:33:00.000-07:00

My website is now running, and I think I have the bugs out now. While I'm happy about that, my writing has taken a backseat. My Praxton series, now three books are being edited by a new publisher, Midnight Showcase. I hope they will be available this year but it depends on them. My other two stories, The Doorway and Buy Me are going to be published by eXasybooks. Again that is up to them when they will be published. In the meantime I hope you can make do with the free stories I have available.

I have the plot for the fourth Praxton novel worked out and a outline for two other books as well. I just time to write them! By the way, I need characters for my books and a couple of friends of mine have appeared in the books at their requests. I don't use their full name to hide their identity but they are pleased to be in the story. It's fun for me too, I usually have them naked.
So if you're a reader of erotica and would like to be a character in one of my stories, tell me a bit about yourself and we'll see what we can do. I need to know what you look like, maybe a characteristic or two, and a name you'd like o use.

I have a few photos on my site. What do you think of them? I've had a couple of positive comments about them and a suggestion I update more fequently (I will try).

Thanks for your emails, and enjoy the week.
NS Howard

Web site revised

2009-08-23T18:22:00.000-07:00

I'm in the process of redoing my website and I hope to have done this week. I have neglected my present website due to the backlog of work I have. Besides working to up date the new website, I have been working on several stories.
My new website will be linked to some free stories I wrote and to other websites. I will still have a few pictures of women in bondage that i trust you will interesting.

Praxton, Slaves of the Rogue World is no longer available at A1Adult books. The good news is that Midnight Showcase Publishing is going to publish the series. I am finishing up the third Praxton book and I hope all three books will be available soon.
I have another new story with another new publisher. eXtasybooks is going to publish Buy Me, the sequal to the popular The Doorway story.

I do hope you will check the new website. It should be up and running by the end of the month, perhaps in a couple of days if bugs don't show up.

Praxton Collars

2009-07-01T10:40:00.000-07:00

I would to give a bit more information on the collars worn by women on the world of Praxton. Before I do that, I want to be clear about one thing about the females on Praxton. First, they are not slaves. Now I know the title of the book(s) are Praxton-Slaves of the the Rogue World and that appears at first to be a contradiction. However the title refers to how the Alliance Worlds percieve them. The people on Praxton don't think of their planet as being "rogue" and they deny the females there are slaves.
The females on Praxton are submissive to males, and to a lesser degree to other females. There is a pecking order among the females- some of that is official as in the Senior Female but also on an informal standing as well.
Now back to the collars. The collars on Praxton can range in quality and type according to why the female is wearing it. A formal occasion would require the use of a more ornate collar while other collars would be used for more casual clothes. One thing a female does not do is to leave her bedroom without one on. The collar to her identifies her male guardian and she simply would not be seen without one on.
The collars, as mentioned in the books, are always locked. In reality, most females have a key to unlock their collar. This allows them to remove it for washing, or when they are shopping for another collar. Thus the appearance of a female may lead outsiders to say she is a slave, the truth is she a submissive. She wants to wear a collar and has the ability to remove it.
That's it for collars for now. If you have an opinion on them, let me know.
Happy Canada Day!

website repair

2009-06-14T09:33:00.000-07:00

I recently upgraded to Internet Explorer 8, and it caused some problems with viewing my website. I don't why everytime Microsoft comes out with new and improved versions of anything, it causes big problems with previous programs. Don't these guys test their products beyond whether it starts up?
I'm sorry for those who went to my website and found they couldn't navigate beyond the first page. Corrections have been made, but if you're having trouble viewing my website please let me know. I'll try to figure out what's going on.

Praxton Three is now being edited and I hope to release it in the coming months. I think you'll love the story as a woman from Earth is faced with a decision to travel to Praxton with her boyfriend.
I also want to announce there will be a Praxton Four. The story line is being developed and I hope to start on it this fall. Meanwhile I have a few other stories I'm working on.

"M" was being dificult and I have to say she was deserving of a bit of discipline. What is a bit surprising is how even a simple tie can reduce her to being a quiet submissive. She struggled when I took a length of rope and approached her. But once the first loop of rope went around her wrist I sensed her resolve weaken and when I tied her other wrist, she gave in. With her wrists tied behind her back she merely looked at me as she sat on the couch without any sign of deviance. I, of course, pulled down her jeans and gave her a good spanking. She didn't strauggle and I moved on to the next step of corrective action.
I have found in the past that even putting gag on her quickly reduces her resistance, and even though her hands might still be free, she doesn't dare try to remove the gag.
One lady wrote to me and told me her husband keeps a set of handcuffs in the glovebox of their truck. She like the thought that wherever they are there is a possibility he will cuff her. She admitted it rarely happens but the threat it could keeps her in line.
Let me know if the hint of bondage keeps other ladies submissive.

More details another time on simple bondage methods.

back again

2009-04-13T08:58:00.000-07:00

Hi, I'm sorry I haven't blogged for ages. I guess I got caught up on other things and as time went by I forgot about doing this blog. I have also had trouble writing. I tried to write a couple of stories but they just didn't work. I felt bad about my lack of production but you can't force yourself to write good fiction.
Then a couple of weeks ago I started to try to write the next book of Praxton, Slaves of the Rogue World. Suddenly it was like a light switch went on. The words flowed and my fingers couldn't type fast enough. I'm about 2/3rds of the way through now and know where I'm going with it. In fact I already have a plot for the fourth book.
I will update this blog again but won't wait so long next time.

Note: I want to thank those who emailed me and told me to keep writing. I love hearing back from my readers and their suggestions on what they think could happen next on Praxton and other stories.

NS Howard

Writings

2008-09-07T20:41:00.000-07:00

I'm writing a new story, a tale about women who allow themselves to be sold at a charity auction. It's a sequel in a way to my series called The Doorway. Several readers wanted to know about the auction mentioned near the end of part 3. I find the concept interesting and have tried to make it sound plausable.
"M" liked the story as well, but then she likes any story where bondage is part of it. I'll let you know when it's finished and posted and you can judge for yourself.

As I mentioned M does like bondage and I like to satisfy her that way when I can. We were visiting some friends who live out in the country and at the end of the evening I began to form a plan.
After we left I drove down one of those lonely country roads and stopped the car. I told her if she wanted to have a ride home she had to strip, completely. She pretended to be shocked but quickly stood at the side of the car and removed her clothing. I made her stand naked for a minute as I observed her and then allowed her to put on one item. She choose her shirt and I put the rest of her clothes in the trunk of the car. I had a bungee cord in the trunk and used that to tie her wrists together in front of her. After securing her seatbelt I drove her home, telling her all the fun I was going to have when we got home.
I do believe she was quite satisfied that night.

Tool Shed

2008-07-12T16:14:00.000-07:00

When you live in a small town one of the advantages is you have large lots. It means more grass cutting but also you have room for other things too. Like a large deck and in my case a tool shed.
The tool shed is not that small, about six feet wide and ten feet long. I built it out of wood and even has a small window in it. Inside is a mixture of tools, a couple chairs we don't know what do with, a small work bench, and various hardware.

We were watching an old science fiction series on TV and a woman was captured and put behind bars. It occurred to me it might be interesting to have 'M' as a prisoner. Now I could have rigged something up inside the house easily enough, like putting her inside a closet. But she likes the danger of being seen without ever being caught.
Later that week at night I asked 'M' to follow me to the bedroom. There she was stripped of her clothes and ordered to put on one of my old T-shirts (I think it was the best use I ever got out of a Coors Light T-shirt). Then I secured her wrists behind her back with a pair of handcuffs.
"March" I ordered her through the house and to her surprise out the back door. She looked around to see if anyone was watching and then crossed our backyard. I unlocked the tool shed and she stepped inside. The only light came from a single light bulb overhead and it took her a minute to see the chicken wire (wire mesh of one inch squares) I had stretched over some used 2x4's to make a makeshift enclosure at the back.
I had a watering can waiting and now used it to pour water over the old shirt, making it cling to her. After she soaked I began to rip it off her. She actually let out a small moan as her hard nipples were exposed. Soon she was naked and I used one of pieces of the torn shirt to gag her. Then I sent her to back of the shed and closed the chicken wire door on her.
"I told her she was prisoner and I would be back to do what I want soon. I left her there in the shed, locking the door behind me to be safe, and watched out of the kitchen window for half and hour.
When I returned she was pressing her breasts against the wire mesh. She was breathing hard and not just because of the gag. I took her in the tool shed and then let her go.
That happened two weeks ago and yesterday she asked me if I was planning to use the prisoner box again on her. She then admitted she burnt some toast the other day. I nodded and told her a sentence would be given out soon.
NS Howard

the willow stick

2008-06-12T10:05:00.000-07:00

I want to thank everyone for the emails they sent me regarding the last post. I'm glad most of you understand that Praxton is a fantasy, nothing more. I also found that a few of you wanted Praxton to have a little more discipline in it. A couple of ladies said they really enjoyed the spanking part of the story, more so than the collar. Myself, I like both aspects of the Praxton story. Finally I will do a second part to the story, not sure when yet.

"M" was giving attitude as she is prone to do when she wants to be punished. I waited until we were alone and then decided to take care of things. First I marched her into the bedroom and ordered her to strip. I held a small branch from a willow tree in my hand and smacked it a couple of times on my hand to let her know it was time for business. I used a long, thin rope to tie her hands behind her back and used the remaining length to go around her waist and between her legs. I tied it so if she pulled on her hands the crotch rope pulled as well. At this point she was already breathing hard with excitement and I placed a pillow in the middle of the bed and ordered her to lay over it. With her backside raised high over the pillow I made use of the willow stick. Carefully of course, as I don't want to cut her cheeks. I believe she was close to coming as she certainly did wet the pillow during her discipline and I took advantage of her soon after that.
She certainly enjoyed herself and was content to lie on the bed with her wrists tied up afterwards.
I shall keep that willow stick handy for another time.

Praxton rant

2008-05-15T17:32:00.000-07:00

As you know I'm a writer or erotica. My writings are mere fantasy, an escape from the real world. I want everyone to know that these are works of fiction. Period.
I wrote a science fiction series called Praxton, Slaves of the Rogue World. They have been well received and a third novel is being planned. I choose the title on purpose. To me it has a Flash Gordon sort of title, a little silly sounding.
I quite like the series. It has sex in it-always a good thing- and women in collars and cuffs. Occasionally there is a spanking or other discipline, something else that's good in fantasies. It takes place in the far future and if you read it carefully there is a social message in it. It does require the reader to read a bit between the lines but I wrote it for people who just want some fantasy and those who like to ponder situations.
I like to give readers free stuff and I wrote a short story called Praxton, the Proposal (http://www.literotica.com/stories/showstory.php?id=363343)that was stated in the introduction it was part of the series. It involves a woman who is invited by a man to join him on Praxton. A reader asked why an intelligent woman would allow herself to become a slave and that the male domination was a little heavy. She (let me assume a woman here) admitted she hadn't read the rest of the series and thus the history (excerpts are available).
Where do I begin? She admits she doesn't know the all facts and puts in a comment anyway. What does intelligence have to do with her wanting to be a submissive? I would bet many of intelligent women (and men) like to be submissive. In the story it it is clearly stated she kept returning to him (a bad boy, rough around the edges)so why it is a surprise she likes his domination?
A legitiminate question is why some women like to wear collars and cuffs. Fair enough. I don't know the answer. I do know some women do. Many women like the thought of being spanked. While I admit I don't know the reason why, I do know it is part of our society. So I projected that concept to a planet in the future called Praxton.
Whether you like the story or not is personal taste. But it is science fiction- a fantasy of What If?
What do you think? Should this story be taken seriously? Is the comment fair? Let me know- send me an email (if you don't want a reply just put in No Reply Wanted or NRW at the bottom). I do love comments-good and bad. I just have trouble with comments made without the person knowing all the facts (yeah, we all know the guy who knows something about everything). I'll send a free pdf copy of Book One to three randomly selected readers. email: nshwrd@yahoo,ca Thanks for listening and enjoy the summer.

Visitors

2008-05-04T20:00:00.000-07:00

This is an event that happened over two years ago. I remembered it was a Tuesday, though the exact date escapes me. "M" was in the kitchen when I came in with bag from the hardware store. She asked what I had bought and not thinking much about it at first showed her a small set of wrenches and a set of bungee cords, the type that come in varying lengths with hooks on the end.
I think she thought the same thing I did about three seconds after me. Now "M" is not an exhibitionst but she does find the possibility and danger of being discovered exciting. So what happened next may have been a subconscious desire to increase that danger.

I ordered her to strip in the kitchen and she quickly and obediately removed her clothes. I then used the bungee cords to secure her wrists above and apart to two cupboard handles. Then I separated her legs by securing her knees to the lower cubboards. I could tell she was aroused and I still had a long length of cord. I placed the cord around her waist. She knew what I was going to do and moaned as I put one end between her legs. The end was then hooked back to the cord around her waist. I stood back at watched her as she closed her eyes and pulled her hands against the cords, her hips moving slightly to the pressure of the crotch rope.
The knock on the door opened her eyes fully. She whispered 'Oh, my God I forgot about her coming over for coffee.'
I spent the next ten minutes talking to one of her friends at the front door as "M" stood naked in the kitchen tied up just out of sight. Her friend decided to come back later after I told her "M" had to run to the store.

It was interesting to see "M" afterwards. She looked flushed and extremely ready for anything I could give her. Since that time she has admited it is a fantasy of hers, and should remain a fantasy she reminds me, that she is discovered tied up.
We enjoy bondage in different parts of the house but I always ask first if she is expecting any company.

Bondage variety

2008-04-18T10:45:00.000-07:00

"M" was lounging around in a terry-towel housecoat last weekend. We were all alone and I decided to take advantage of the opportunity. I used the belt from the housecoat to tie her hands behind her back. This, of course, had two effects. One, it made her helpless and two, her housecoat was now open at the front. There wasn't much she could do, not that she was complaining. I did give her a spanking for the fun of it (I read somewhere that 75% of women enjoy the thought of being spanked and in M's case it certainly is true). I then had her on her knees in front of me and you can guess the rest of it.
The thing is you can do bondage a lot of different ways. Ropes, ties, scarfs, pantyhose, tape, cuffs, extension cords... the list is a long one. Locations can be at home, a hotel room, the car, the garage, outdoors or any secluded spot. I once drove out to our cottage with M securely tied to her seat.
More on this subject in future blogs.

Birthday

2008-03-21T22:59:00.000-07:00

First off I want to wish "M", my sweetheart, hapy birthday. Besides the usual small gifts, birthday cake and card I will try to do something special for her. That will involve BDSM.
"M" likes to be put into bondage and then disciplined. Not all the time of course, but her birthday is a good time for this. I like the use of cuffs. They can be quickly locked into place and limbs can be changed position easily. For example I can put her spreadeagle on the bed and then change her to a hogtie position.
But "M" likes rope, lots of it with a complex tie. Thus I have plenty of rope available for her birthday. I plan to wrap each limb with rope as well as around her body. She does like a crotch rope, espicially with her wrists tied helplessly behind her back.
The second part is the discipline. She will receive a spanking that she enjoys and possibly a small whipping on her back. It will a great birthday for her.

Sales of latest book, Praxton- Slaves of the Rogue World Book 2, has been very good. As I mentioned before it did win February's Pure Erotica Book of the Month. Thank you to all those who purchased it.

Spanking

2008-03-03T17:55:00.000-08:00

My lady "M" does not receive a lot of discipline, but when she does it usually is a spanking. How often she gets a spanking depends a lot on her- she will deliberately do something to warrant such action and that can happen at anytime. I do know she enjoys the sting of a spanking on her bare ass. But more importantly she did admit that she likes the fact I can and will spank her. She enjoys the control I can exert on her.
For that reason "M" also likes to be in handcuffs or tied up when she is being spanked. She likes to struggle as I punish her and has even asked for a gag so she is denied the chance to even cry out.

On a different note my novel Praxton- Slaves of the Rogue World, Book 2 won A1Adult February's Pure Erotica Award. There is excerpt of the novel on my website. If you enjoy a female being spanked there a few of those situations in the book.

Double

2008-02-21T18:14:00.000-08:00

As I indicated on my website "M" and I had a guest from Australia stay with us. She found it a bit cold here, but most visitors. We did introduce her to a snowball fight and since she didn't know how to make a decent snowball it was pretty one sided.
We also found she was bit curious about bondage and I ended up tying her up to "M", a double treat for me. Clothes were kept on but it was still a nice experience.

If you are hoping to be able to tie two women at the same time you do have to go nice and slow. Build up their confidence in themselves and in you. Don't push too hard; it may take more than one time to get them to the point where they will allow you to tie them up semi-nude and using extra rope. You may want to use cuffs first, they are quicker to put on and remove. Have fun and remember even when they are in restraints they want to still feel they are in control.

My book Praxton, Slaves of the Rogue World Book Two has done well so far at A1 Adult Books (http://www.a1adultebooks.com/site.php?cat=&pr=1081)
I have an excerpt on my website that you may read if you wish but the story has a lot of female nudity and bondage. If you email me I'll send you the first chapter as well.

Valentine's Day

2008-02-10T10:45:00.000-08:00

February 14 is a great day to spend with your sweetheart. It also a day to give her something romantic. There are alot of things to choose from but keep in mind the gift is for her and not just something that makes you feel good. Your lady will appreciate the attention you spend on her and the thought into the gift.

Suggestion: Give her a gift she can tell her friends about. That may be a day at the spa or even a romantic dinner out. Perhaps a favourite movie of hers on a DVD.
Now you can also suppliment that gift with something else. Lingerie. Velvet handcuffs. A stylish collar. Pink bondage rope. One year I gave "M", among other things, a roll of red ribbon.

The red ribbon was about an inch wide and I used it to slowly wrap her body in it. And I mean everywhere. Around her arms and legs, over her breasts, between her legs and around her neck. She was helpless and moaned as I gently pulled at different parts of the ribbon.

So give her something she wants, and then later you can tie her up and put her in bondage and have a gift for yourself.

New Book! Praxton, Slaves of the Rogue World Book Two is being released this week. The novel continues the story of Praxton, this time the Alliance Worlds invade Praxton to free the women. However the women don't want to stop wearing their collars and cuffs and Praxton fights back.
There is a lot of nudity and the use of restraints in this story as well as mild disciline. Like Praxton Book One the bondage and sex is consensual.

winter vacation

2008-01-22T09:58:00.000-08:00

There's nothing like a small vacation to someplace warm during winter. It will give you and your sweetheart a change to do different things. If you were waiting for a chance to introduce her to bondage this might be the time.
If you are in a tourist city, such as Las Vegas, there are shows and other events that can stimulate imaginations. You may want to go to one of the sex shops and purchase her a collar or cuffs and present it to her as gift. It could well lead to her admitting she enjoys wearing such items.
Vacations also allow you to rent a small cottage away from the crowd. Try tying her up outside. For example when she she lying out on the sun surprise her by tying her wrists together and then her ankles. Her reaction might be "What if someone sees me this way?" Of course you know that isn't likely but it will make her more excited the chance that someone will catch her that way. After a few minutes you may even take her bikini top off.
Remember when you pack to take along some rope and if if she already has a collar and cuffs to include that in the suitcase as well. And don't forget the suntan oil.

Christmas presents

2008-01-07T11:27:00.000-08:00

We actually celebrate Ukrainian Christmas in our household. If you do as well, Merry Christmas! Many of us give lingerie as gift on Christmas to our sweetheart and sometimes she needs an excuse to wear it and show it off to you. You may have also purchased her a new collar or other restraining devices. Now is a good time to use them.
Let her put them on and then tie her up. If some of the garment slips off a bit during the process, so much the better. Bondage while she is wearing something new and sexy will will make her feel good as well. Have fun and tie her safely.

Control

2007-12-27T11:06:00.000-08:00

"M" has been willful lately, maybe something to do with being naughty or nice. Usually I use cuffs on her and then have my way with her. But this time I thought she needed- and wanted- more.

The first thing I do is put her collar on her and lock it. She will protest and give token resistance to the collar being placed around her neck but once that collar is on she becomes submissive. She gives in to my superior strength and will. I could order her to undress at this point and she would. But I prefer to undress her myself now, letting her know I'm going to hands on this time. I'm careful with her clothes but have been known to be less gentle on her panties and bra. I do believe she likes it when I tear her panties off, though the bra can be expensive so I make a decision as to whether I like the bra style or not. If it is full coverage and doesn't enhance her breasts then I will usually ruin it.

Instead of cuffs I use rope. Rope takes longer and I want her to feel the lose of her own control slowly as the rope goes around her limbs. I don't stop at her ankles, knees, elbows and wrists. I also will bind her breasts. At this point she is usually twisting her body in excitement but I like to add a crotch rope as well, often with a knot that will press against her pussy.

At this point sometimes I will gag her for a short time. One thing she knows is that later she will be disciplined, more on that in a future blog, and that I will be getting a blow job from her.

Try using lots of soft ropes on your lady sometime. It stretches out the time to put her into bondage and she will enjoy it as you slowly secure her.

Bondage ceiling hook

2007-12-12T09:43:00.000-08:00

Depending on the time you have and whether you want to try something new in restraining your lady, you might want to consider using a simple hook in the ceiling. Once she is willing to submit to you it is important to try different types of bondage to make it interesting for both of you. As you can see on my website it is very easy to quickly hand a chain or a rope from a hook implanted into the ceiling. Make sure the hook is into a solid surface and not just the drywall. Hooks of various strengths can be purchased from hardware stores and range from ones designed to hold a plant pot to those strong enough to lift several hundred pounds.
One thing is nice about the ceiling hook is that whatever room you choose to place it in, it won't look out of place and draw needless attention. Besides the bedroom you may wish to consider the living room, garage, basement or a spare room.
Try getting the quick disconnect latches. If company expectantly arrives you can quickly free her.
Now the nice thing about the ceiling hook is you can easily add a chain or rope to it and then handcuff her to hanging chain (or rope). Very quickly she is helpless in front of you.
You may want to consider adding a second hook to hold not just her hands but her ankles as well. If the hooks are strong enough (and put a soft mat under her in case they fail) you may wish to try suspension bondage. More on that in a future blog.

Hog Tie

2007-11-21T18:22:00.000-08:00

The hog tie is a simple bondage method to hold a woman in a helpless position. With her arms behind her back and secured to her feet she is forced to lie unresisting to your advances.

You can touch her, spank her or do what you will. As you can see in the photographs she can be tied in a rather simple fashion using ropes or cuffs. However with a little imagination you can use more complex ties. After the tie is complete you can add to her submission by putting a collar on her, gagging her or attaching nipple clamps.

As in one picture you can also tie her so she is bent over backwards. Besides the workbench, chairs, multiple cushions, small tables can also work. What is important is if you can bend her back slightly (not too much- you don't want her to tire too soon). This improves her posture at her front, lifting her breasts to a pleasing position. With her hands behind her back and her legs pulled back her whole front is available for you to see and touch.

Remember she is vulnerable to your wishes. Touch her often. Massage her. Rub oil on her skin. Even, if she enjoys it, drip candle wax on her. Tying her wrists and feet together is just the first step. Now is the time to make sure she enjoys the experience for next time.

Bedroom bondage

2007-11-13T07:27:00.000-08:00

The photos on www.nshoward.com deal with bedroom bondage, usually the best place to use restraints. Obviously the bedroom is an excellent place to take advantage of her. Restraints can be safely kept in the room and brought out as needed.
The bed often has several places where you can secure rope or chains to and as we see the pictures a poster bed has many advantages.
One other consideration is the bed itself. The mattress will help make her comfortable. As been noted in earlier blogs it is important that she is comfortable so both of you can get maximum enjoyment of the bondage.
Sometimes in the morning I attach and lock a cuff on "M's" wrist or ankle and run a chain from it to the bed corner. She knows she will be properly secured later on but for now enjoys the thought of being a captive woman. I usually go the kitchen and make her a small breakfast of toast and tea. As she eats her breakfast she has time to anticipate what I will be doing to her and that makes her excited by the time her tea is finished.
You may wish to try something similar yourself and may even consider securing a cuff to her wrist or ankle the night before. Guaranteed she will wake up aroused.

Stand up bondage

2007-11-02T12:14:00.000-07:00

This week at my website- http://www.nshoward.com/- I have included pictures of women with their hands tied above their head. As with my other articles I'm assuming that the bondage is consensual; that she enjoys being put into restraints.

There are a few advantages to do so with above the head restraint. First, whether you use cuffs or rope, you can make her helpless quickly. A female with her wrists tied together and secured above her head is under your control. You can, of course, add additional restraints to her arms, legs, ankles or torso. There is also the possibility of adding a gag and a collar, and these two item will make her feel even more submissive.

The second consideration for restraining her arms above her head is that it improves her posture. The breasts are lifted upward, her back is stretched out and her stomach flattened. If she lifted high enough she will have to reach out with her foot to touch the floor. If her toes are just reaching the floor it will make her legs look longer.

Finally if you tie her up in the manner shown in the pictures you can walk around her and survey her body from all angles. It's easy to give her a pat on her ass or touch her any way your want. Hanging from the ceiling does allow her to move around as well if her feet can reach the floor and if there is a mirror in the room she will enjoy the sight of her own body hanging helplessly.

Give it a try on your lady. Remember as with a lot of bondage check to see if she is tiring or getting uncomfortable.

Collars

2007-10-30T09:57:00.000-07:00

One thing I often look at when I see a woman in bondage is whether she is wearing a collar. To me it is sign she is submissive and is accepting of his (or in some cases another woman's) control over her.

Photo is courtesy of www.bondagemaidens.com

In my novel Praxton the women not only wore collars but it was expected that they be locked. I believe a locked collar is a reminder to the woman wearing it she is dependent on her Master for the amount of freedom she has.

The collar can be used or worn a number of different ways. First, it can be hidden where the woman can wear in public, for example under a turtle neck. It can also be disguised to a degree; a choker looks a lot like a collar and to a wearer it may mean the same thing but to others it looks like a necklace.

A collar can also be of varying widths and wider styles(sometimes referred to as posture collars) can restrict the head movement. Rings attached to the collar also allow for additional bondage. One can attach by a short chain wrist cuffs to the collar that greatly reduces movement. Or the Master can attach a leash to the collar. The collar with a leash by itself is a sign of complete control over her.

Take a look at some of the online stores offering collars. There are both metal and leather ones available with varying degrees of quality and design. Matching cuffs can also be bought to compliment the collar.

Explore a little at the different sites offering bondage equipment and accessories. The women are likely to find more than one kind they find attractive and enjoy wearing them.

Cuffs or ropes

2007-10-24T08:32:00.000-07:00

In my novel Praxton, Slaves of the Rogue World, the female characters all wear collars and usually cuffs. I used cuffs in the novel for several reasons.

The first is that cuffs are always on and makes it easy for her Guardian to quickly join them together or attach them to chains. The cuffs and collars on Praxton were also considered part of the fashion accessories. They often matched and could be of an elaborate design. Females did not leave their bedroom without a collar on and often choose cuffs to go with outfit they were planning to wear that day.

I also choose cuffs over ropes for one other very good reason. Females on Praxton were expected to take very good care of themselves and spent a good portion of each morning preparing themselves. That effort would be partially defeated if ropes were used and left marks on the skin. On Praxton it was illegal for the Guardian to leave permanent marks on the female skin.

There is nothing wrong with ropes; certainly to the female they may make her feel even more restrained as they put pressure on area where they are attached. Ropes can also do more than just secure limbs. They can used in breast bondage and make the breast and nipples more prominent. In addition they can circle the waist and go between her legs to make crotch rope. These all allow the male to control her very effectively and help stimulate her as well.
The preference is always personal and can be a combination of the two. For beginners cuffs may be better. Ropes can be put on too tight and there is a small risk of pinching her skin if not done with care. Not sure which to use on her? Ask her and then restrain away!

Welcome to my first blog

2007-10-22T09:53:00.000-07:00

Hi there and thank you stopping to read this. I write erotic literature and would like to share with you some of my thoughts on this genre. First, not everyone agrees what is and what isn't erotic. Some call my writings too tame while others think it's overboard. Obviously, to each his own.
For example read the comments on my free short story The Doorway. Some thought it was too slow a pace but others loved the slow buildup. To me it is easy to write about the physical act but what I like is the thought process of the characters and why they do what they do. Catherine's seduction into bondage was carefully planned by Daniel and I wanted to show how she came to accept what she wanted in the end.
I will be trying to add to this blog once a week. I want to explore erotic writing usually with a theme of bondage in it. I will be using photos to describe some of the topics and hope to get feedback from you as well. Til next week.

NS erotic writer

Erotic Control

The Prenuptial, a new spanking story

Slave collars and Praxton

Spanking Survey

Spanking the lady

An erotic fairy tale

The men of Praxton

Praxton customs

Praxton Life

New story, Praxton

Time flies

New story

spanking

Collar time

Keeping her naked

Establishing control

the start of dominance

Haven Story

spanking

Stories on hold

More stories

Back again

New story

Quiet ties

Up and running

Web site revised

Praxton Collars

website repair

back again

Writings

Tool Shed

the willow stick

Praxton rant

Visitors

Bondage variety

Birthday

Spanking

Double

Valentine's Day

winter vacation

Christmas presents

Control

Bondage ceiling hook

Hog Tie

Bedroom bondage

Stand up bondage

Collars

Cuffs or ropes

Welcome to my first blog