Thursday, December 27, 2007

Control

"M" has been willful lately, maybe something to do with being naughty or nice. Usually I use cuffs on her and then have my way with her. But this time I thought she needed- and wanted- more.

The first thing I do is put her collar on her and lock it. She will protest and give token resistance to the collar being placed around her neck but once that collar is on she becomes submissive. She gives in to my superior strength and will. I could order her to undress at this point and she would. But I prefer to undress her myself now, letting her know I'm going to hands on this time. I'm careful with her clothes but have been known to be less gentle on her panties and bra. I do believe she likes it when I tear her panties off, though the bra can be expensive so I make a decision as to whether I like the bra style or not. If it is full coverage and doesn't enhance her breasts then I will usually ruin it.

Instead of cuffs I use rope. Rope takes longer and I want her to feel the lose of her own control slowly as the rope goes around her limbs. I don't stop at her ankles, knees, elbows and wrists. I also will bind her breasts. At this point she is usually twisting her body in excitement but I like to add a crotch rope as well, often with a knot that will press against her pussy.

At this point sometimes I will gag her for a short time. One thing she knows is that later she will be disciplined, more on that in a future blog, and that I will be getting a blow job from her.

Try using lots of soft ropes on your lady sometime. It stretches out the time to put her into bondage and she will enjoy it as you slowly secure her.

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Bondage ceiling hook



Depending on the time you have and whether you want to try something new in restraining your lady, you might want to consider using a simple hook in the ceiling. Once she is willing to submit to you it is important to try different types of bondage to make it interesting for both of you. As you can see on my website it is very easy to quickly hand a chain or a rope from a hook implanted into the ceiling. Make sure the hook is into a solid surface and not just the drywall. Hooks of various strengths can be purchased from hardware stores and range from ones designed to hold a plant pot to those strong enough to lift several hundred pounds.
One thing is nice about the ceiling hook is that whatever room you choose to place it in, it won't look out of place and draw needless attention. Besides the bedroom you may wish to consider the living room, garage, basement or a spare room.
Try getting the quick disconnect latches. If company expectantly arrives you can quickly free her.
Now the nice thing about the ceiling hook is you can easily add a chain or rope to it and then handcuff her to hanging chain (or rope). Very quickly she is helpless in front of you.
You may want to consider adding a second hook to hold not just her hands but her ankles as well. If the hooks are strong enough (and put a soft mat under her in case they fail) you may wish to try suspension bondage. More on that in a future blog.